Embracing Your Comfort Zone

I know I talk a lot about change and how change is good, and that you shouldn’t be scared of but instead you should embrace it.
But on the flip side there is a lot to be said for keeping things the same.

By keeping things the same, you never have to be uncomfortable, you never have to live outside your comfort zone, there is never an adjustment period, and everything is just always consistent. You know what to expect and how things should go.

The world is full of all different people, with many different personalities. This is a good thing. Some people strive to always look for the change while others prefer to keep things the same. This is one of the many things that I love about my job.I get to be with all types of people and learn about what makes them desire change, and what makes them desire familiarity. I can truly appreciate the many differences in people. Not only are our personalities different, but so are our beliefs, hobbies, goals, thoughts, and lives.

One way, isn’t necessarly the right way. There are many different “right” ways, and everyone’s ideas of “right” is different. Acceptance is what is most important. Being able to understand other people’s right allows us to appreciate our own ways, or to start to lean towards other ideas. Accepting ourselves, and accepting others for their opinions even when they differ from our own is what keeps us growing and learning. We shouldn’t put up walls or be stubborn, instead we should try to try on someone else’s shoes as they say. Accepting that there are things in this world we can not change, or should not change. It is what it is.

My advice to anyone who doesn’t understand why someone would not want to change is, to take the time to learn about that person as a whole. Not just on the surface, because only then can you truly appreciate, and accept the world around you.

So if you‘re comfortable with what you know, great! Stick with it as along as it’s working for you and the people around you. But never forget acceptance is key.

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

Lets start 2018 off with happiness. My New Years resolution is really no different then any other year, which is to be the best version of myself that I can be.

I wish for all of you to be the best version of yourselves as well.

In doing so we need to take a good look inside ourselves and decide what we think needs improvement and what we are most proud of. Change is never an easy thing, often times it can be rather scary. They say, “if something scares you, it means you need to do it.” This is precisely why you should push yourself, and for me why change is so important.

Change challenges us to accept new and different situations that we may otherwise just accept as normal or ok just to avoid trying harder. Self acceptance has been a theme over the years, especially among women. We as women are so critical of ourselves. What to wear, what to eat (actually, what not to eat), what color our hair should be, what hairstyle should I have. Or even, I wish my [insert anything here} was different, and on and on it goes.

Don’t get me wrong, I feel change is good and it plays an intrigal part in self growth and self awareness, as long as we are doing it for the right reasons. You should only want to change for yourself – not for anyone else. The only way the change will be positive, is if it’s something you want for you. To change who we are or how we look to please someone else is not the right reason. This takes me back to my original statement of being the best version of ourselves.
First evaluate yourself
Decide what do YOU like best and what do YOU feel needs improvement.
Figure out a plan of action on how to make these improvements.
And finally…

Don’t let fear hold you back.
Take the first step.
Happy new year and here’s to being the best version of YOU!!!!

Senegence – now selling

Hi Everyone,

I am excited to share with you I have recently decided to sell Senegence in my salon, specifically their Lipsense line. For those of you who are not familiar with Senegence and Lipsense… you are in for a treat! Lipsense is a lipstick that when applied will last all day long. Lipsense comes in the form of a color gloss. You apply 3 easy applications and finish it off with a your choice of gloss: matte, glossy, opal, or diamond (which adds a little extra sparkle *especially fun for the holidays*).

Lipsense is so awesome that you can eat, drink, workout, or whatever and the color will stay on perfectly until the end of your day, when it’s time to wash it off. I am so impressed with this product and I’m having so much fun testing out all the different colors. I feel like a kid in a candy store, but well… more “adult” since it’s makeup. I can’t wait for you to try and see for yourself.I started carrying this lipstick few weeks ago and everyone is so impressed with it as well, even people that don’t usually wear lipstick have purchased some and love them! In fact, they’re going so quickly that I’ve already had to place another order! They also make great gifts, whether it be for Christmas (anyone need a last minute gift?!), or birthday.

On another note, not only do they make great lip colors, but Senegence is a full beauty line ranging from skincare to makeup to body care and perfume. Everything you could possibly want, and they’re all wonderful!

I also brought in a few skin care products and I have to say after using their 3 in 1 cleanser and day and evening moisturizers make my skin feel fantastic. I tried the facial resurfacer followed by the polisher and I couldn’t believe how after just one use how soft my skin was. Those of you who really know me, know I love the sun and I spend a lot of time hanging outside in the summertime, which has caused my skin to be extra dry (also, thanks Arizona!) This new regimen I have started is definitely going to help nourish my very dry skin. I feel like I finally found products that actually work and work quickly. That to me is a win-win.

I am just so excited to share these products with all of you, so feel free to ask me any questions or stop in to see them in person.


Often we focus our energy on “what can I change about myself?” I challenge you to find something about yourself that you are proud of and something you feel is worth bragging about. Even if there’s just one thing you can focus on, I ask you to choose it.

Instead of wishing something was different, how about if we tried to embrace what we do have and appreciate it?

I used to hate my freckles! They made feel like I stood out. “None of my friends had them, so why do I have to have so many?” I used to think. Why can’t I have what I considered a “clean palate” on my face and body? “It’s not fair,” I would say to myself. But as I have gotten older I have learned to accept that this is who I am. My freckles are part of my story, and now I realize I’d look too plain without them. They make me who I am, they are special. No creams or procedures are going to erase them, so why not embrace them?! And though sometimes I still struggle with them, I have learned to love and accept them as part of me.

They say, “With age comes wisdom,” …but I think a better statement is, “with age comes self acceptance!”

Teenage years can be an especially difficult time for many, but as soon as you graduate high school, it’s like everyone starts over. It’s a new chapter. Your worst enemies are now your best friends. Why do we have to go through all the drama, phases, and hard times to get to the good times? I feel it’s to help us grow as individuals and learn how to become our own person.

So my message to you is whatever it is that you are most uncomfortable with about yourself, treat it as you just graduated high school and turn it around to be your best quality. Acceptance is a very powerful tool. We all have the ability to do it – sometimes it’s just about how you look at things, or having a new perspective.

So back to my challenge for you…. What do you love? What do you want to learn to love? What do others love about you? Think about it – and I invite you to add a picture of yourself with a note as to what you have chosen to accept about yourself.

Thanks for participating!

I used to hate my freckles! They made feel like I stood out. ….But as I have gotten older I have learned to accept that this is who I am. My freckles are part of my story, and now I realize I’d look too plain without them. They make me who I am, they are special.

Happy 2017

What does 2017 mean to you?

I feel this is an important year to appreciate.

Appreciate your family
Appreciate your friends
Appreciate your body
Appreciate your health
Appreciate your co-workers

Appreciate your accomplishments as well as the obstacles you face, because that is what makes you stronger.
We may not always know why something is happening in our lives at the time it is happening, but eventually all questions are answered. You just need to be open to it and willing to hear (or see) it.

So, in the spirit of appreciation I would like say “thank you” to all of my amazing clients and friends for your continued business and support throughout the years.
My heart is full of gratitude to each of you for what you add to my life.
I look forward to another year of great hair, great conversation, and great appreciation.

love, Marla

Your Hairdresser, Your Friend


When I was younger and trying to decide what I wanted to be when I grew up I had so many different thoughts and ideas… I thought, “should I go into fashion and become a buyer for a big store, because I love clothes? …should I become a therapist, because I love helping and listening to people? …should I become a hairstylist because I love doing my friends hair in the bathroom at my house.I could have decided to do any of these, I just had to decide which one I wanted to do.

Obviously I choose to become a hairstylist, and I have never had a single regret about my decision. The funny thing is that I actually got to combine all my desires into what I do today. I didn’t actually “go into” fashion but I do need to stay up to date on fashion, style and trends to stay in the know and help give ideas about what’s in and out each season. I get to wear whatever I want to each day at work, and get to show all sides of my personality. One day I can be boho chic, the next I’ll be sporty and the next I’ll be preppy or rock a cool grunge look. I love that everyday I can be something different. In addition to my clothes, I get to change my hair as I please: I can go from brown to red to brown with blonde highlights, and back to brown again. Or I can straighten my hair one day, wear it curly hair the next. I think it’s good for you as my client to see me style my hair and my clothes differently each time – it shows how easy it is to change things up! I’m telling you I just love the freedom, and versatility I am able to express everyday. (I hope it inspires you a bit too!)

Though I am no therapist, I do have very close relationships with my clients and am able to be a listening ear to my clients. I’m lucky because my clients aren’t just my clients – they become more, they become my friends. I love the conversations I get to have with my clients, but I am especially blessed that they feel so comfortable confiding in me, knowing it is a safe place for them. I love not only being able to give them more confidence in themselves through their hairstyles, but also in helping them work through things that may be causing them stress, or confusion. Sometimes it’s the first time in a long time someone has actually sat down and relaxed, so it’s natural to talk about stresses and even happiness going on in someones life. I’m just happy to help them relax a bit!

I am so grateful for the path I chose, and to all those who travel this path with me. My hope and wish for all of you is that you find happiness in your choices and follow your dreams.

Thank you for letting me be YOUR HAIRDRESSER, and YOUR FRIEND!


Why You Might Not Want A Trendy Haircut This Season

One of the most common questions I am asked is, “what hair style is hot right now?” I respond by saying, “There is no set style that is The Style.”

The reason I say this is because not everyone can wear what may be trending right now. For example, a few months ago “The BOB” (A perfect example of a timeless style) made a comeback. The BOB (a shorter style that is usually all one length falling at the jaw line) might be difficult for some people to wear based on their face shape, their personal style and hair type. An alternative is a similar short style called “The LOB” (which is really just a longer version of the BOB) which is actually very versatile. It lends itself to be a look that is flattering to anyone, just by changing the length a bit.


In a new article from DailyHaircut.com, you can see what trends are going to be the most popular this winter. There are some great styles in there, and some new and fresh ideas that might look wonderful on you. Now if we did one of these styles for you, that doesn’t mean that that style would work on your co-worker as well. Just because you look amazing, her face shape might not be great for the same style. That being said, a style that might look great on her, might look ridiculous on you!

The best hair styles are the ones that can be customized to the individual. Your hair cut should be a reflection of your personality, we should feel proud and use our hair as the most notable accessories we have. It’s what people tend to remember clearly when they think of us and it’s what people usually focus on see first when they see us. If we are having a bad hair day, somehow it snowballs and all of a sudden we feel like our makeup doesn’t look good and we have nothing to wear. On the other hand, when we are having a good hair day, the opposite happens. Our make up turns out perfect and we are rockin our choice of attire for the day. We feel good, we feel confident and day starts on the right foot.

I want my clients to feel best in their own skin while sporting their own look. So even if a great pixie cut is what all the magazines are showing, this does not mean you have to have that look.

To have so many options might be confusing for some of you, because it’s hard to know what style is best for you. That’s where I come in! I can give you suggestions if your looking to reinvent yourself or to maintain the style you have because that look works best for you.

I love that there are so many options out there to choose from because this allows us to customize your perfect look.There are no rules, no ONE look that is THE look. Your best look is the one that makes you feel beautiful and confident. Let’s explore them all and find what that look is!

trendy photo from DailyHaircut.com

Getting To Know Marla, Even Better!

An Interview With Hairstylist Marla Leigh

Hi! My name is Lindsay and I’ve been a client of Marla’s for years now. If you’re like me, you’ve spent a lot of time in Marla’s chair, chatting about life and what’s new since the last time I saw her. Maybe you too can relate to the feeling that Marla knows you pretty well. So, now it’s our turn to learn a bit about Marla! I dug deep to try to ask some good questions that I’ve always wondered about our amazing friend and stylist and decided it was time to ask them! She was a great sport and gave me some good insight into what makes her “tick” about hair, what gets her going and how it is that she finds “pleasure” in running!

I hope you enjoy this interview and if you have any questions yourself, feel free to ask them in the comments below! This is a great opportunity to find out what a (our) stylist really thinks. And for those who have yet to become a client to Marla, I hope this intrigues you to come meet her. She is so down to earth and really makes the time fly!

And now onto the interview…

1. What sparked your interest in hair?

I was always fascinated with my hairstylist when I was younger. I thought she was so cool. I used to experiment with my hair and I would recruit my friends to let me cut, color, and perm their hair.

2. When did you realize you wanted to become a hairstylist?

I realized I wanted to become a hairstylist when I was a senior in high school, although all the signs were there since I was in 8th grade. Around that time is when I started experimenting on my friend’s and my own hair in my bathroom at home. My mom would come home from work and the house would smell like perm. She was not very happy about that.

3. What advice would you give to younger boys and girls that think they want to become a stylist when they grow up?

The advise I would give to any girl or guy who is thinking about becoming a hairstylist is to go for it! Being a hairstylist is a wonderful career choice, you meet a lot of amazing people and if you are lucky enough you form lasting relationships with you clients. I feel truly blessed to have the clientele I have. They shouldn’t think it is an easy road to get there though. Being a successful stylist requires a lot of hard work, patience, determination and dedication. There are no easy roads or short cuts.

4. What is your most favorite thing about being a stylist?

I would say my favorite part about being a hair stylist is being able to help people feel beautiful and confident. I am very much a people pleaser, so for me to see my clients shine as they walk out the door means the world to me.

5. How have you seen your profession changed over time?

As with all trends (whether it be hair, fashion, or home decor) the trends are constantly changing so you have to be able to evolve and keep yourself knowledgable with what’s hot NOW.

6. Is there anything you wish was different about your industry?

I don’t think I wish  anything were different about my industry. I think all the separate facets, and the wide range of personalities is what makes it so awesome. You learn so much about people and their hair, it’s like you are always being educated; not just with the latest hair trends, but in people skills as well.

7. Do you do your own hair?

Yes, I do my own hair. As much as I would love to be pampered, it is just easier for me to do it myself. I don’t recommend this to others, especially if they are not familiar with the concept of hair coloring, cutting, etc… I guess I have a bit of a control issue, LOL!

8. How does trust play a part in finding a stylist

Finding someone you can trust to do your hair can be a scary thing. I always take pride in having a great consultation with my clients, whether it be a new client or an existing client that is looking to change things up. It helps to instill their trust in me as their stylist.

9. Do you ever have a bad hair day? If so, what do you do?

Oh yes I have had bad hair days! We are all human, and some days it’s just not happening for my hair. So when that happens I put on a cute hat or head scarf and just rock that look.

10. What’s the most common mistake you see women do to their hair?

The most common mistakes I think women make is not spending enough time conditioning their hair, and waiting too long between haircuts. They think the longer they wait the longer it will grow, but in reality what happens is when they are over due for haircuts their split ends creep up the hair shaft and they end up needing more cut off then if they would have stayed on an every 6-8 week cycle for a trim. As far as lack of conditioning, there are so many ways to fit it in such as before exercising, before laying out by the pool, or before going to sleep. These are great ways to deep condition without feeling like you have to make extra time for it.

11. What do you find yourself fixing most on people’s hair when they are a first time client?

I usually find that I need to fix someones color, from a poor color job by a previous stylist, or a box color they used at home. A good hair color does so much to aid in accessorizing a great haircut.

12. What trend do you wish would disappear?

The trend I think would be nice to disappear would probably be perms. I love naturally curly hair, it has so much personality to it, but I feel perms are outdated and they are actually a lot of upkeep! I understand people with fine limp hair might like to perm their hair for body, but my advice is to embrace what you have and instead change your haircut or add a bit of color which can add to the body of your hairstyle.

13. What are your favorite things to do outside of work?

My favorite things to do outside of work are spending time with my husband and my dog. I am also a very active person, I have run 9 marathons, I play on a tennis league, I enjoy cycling and also swimming. I feel by having all these outlets it helps me to clear my mind and better focus on my work.

I think it is very important for everyone to have their outlets to regroup and organize their thoughts. Some people do this in the form of yoga, running is my yoga!

14. Tell us about your husband and your dog…

My husband Mark is a great guy. I am very lucky. We are both self employed and like to keep busy. We enjoy a lot of the same things, and have fun together. We are going on 22 years of marriage and in this day and age I feel very blessed that I have found the person I am meant to be with. We have always had dogs, and they are our world. We have an Australian Shepard lab mix named Diesel who we rescued when he was 5 months old. He will be ten this October. We both adore him, I feel happiest when the three of us are all together just hanging at home. Pure happiness!

15. How do you spend your time relaxing?

The best way for me to relax would be on a beach with a great book, but seeing as though that is not always easy to achieve, my favorite form of relaxing (locally) is going out for a nice run. I know this sounds strange to most people, but this is when I feel most at ease. Like they say there is nothing like the runners high!

16. What’s the best advice about being a stylist you’ve ever heard?

The best advise about being a stylist that I have had was to always listen to your clients. Consultations are a very important part of establishing a trust worthy relationship with your clients. I like to stay checked in with my clients and keep the lines of communication open. We have a partnership and in order for that to be successful you have to be able to listen and be in tune to their wants and needs. You learn which clients like to change things up on a regular basis, and which ones like the comfort of having the same style. I love that my clients put their trust in me to help them achieve the look they want.

17. What advice do you have for someone who thinks they “hate” their hair?

The best advise I would have for someone that thinks they hate their hair, is to consider different options. It might be as simple as changing their cut, or changing their hair color, and it might be subtle or maybe it’s a drastic change. Sometimes the smallest, simplest changes make the biggest difference.

18. Ok, lastly…. what might people be really surprised to learn about you?

I am a candy and chocolate addict! I guess it’s a good thing I love to run!!